 Is there something wrong with a woman that has not experienced an orgasm?
These
are a couple of questions that I have been getting asked more and more,
so I thought why not address them through my articles? As much as I
have written this for my ladies, men you can benefit from reading this
little bit of info also!
There is nothing physically wrong with
women that have not experienced the big O! They simply just have not
learned how. It is very much a mental exercise as well as physical. Way
back when..., we were taught that it was a bad thing to touch ourselves
(masturbate). That was a big wrong turn for a lot of women. I have read
a lot of letters from women that tell me that they were in their late
20`s before they ever experienced an orgasm,
one that they would
consider an orgasm anyway. This is why I express over and over, ladies
learn about YOUR BODY! Orgasms are very connected to ones mind when
dealing with the female. If you are worried or tired or feeling a bit
at odds with your partner, that door is definitely going to be locked,
even nailed shut. It will take some work and patience to find the key
to open up that mind trap.
Too many women spend way too much
time worrying about orgasms. Worry only puts up the walls that will
totally disable your mind to relax and float. Think of watching and
waiting for water to boil. By the time it has boiled you have lost
interest. Or when you are trying to call someone and the line is
forever busy, that just frustrates you to no end. If you would have
just carried on with something else at the time, the water would have
boiled before you knew it, the phone line would be cleared, and you
would be frustration free! Orgasms work in very much the same way. Do
not think about them. Do prepare for them, feel your body call them,
desire them, fantasize, open your mind up to a total zone of passion.
Pure thoughtless passion.Some women feel that if they do not orgasm, their partner will feel
that they have failed them, or vice verse. (GUILT) There is absolutely
no room for guilt or shyness in the arena of sex! This is one of the
reasons women FAKE the O! It does not do any real physical harm to fake
most things in life. The only one that is losing out though, is you.
You are fooling no one but yourself. Then you end up feeling even worse
because you pretended at a time when you should be open and real.
There
is also the time thing. Women are in need of more stimulation and time
to relax and be able to find their zone. Men tend to think that five
minutes is just super...NOT...so ladies this is where communication
comes into play. You must tell your man that NO, I am not there yet. I
know this sounds bossy, but most men hardly ever have a problem telling
the women what to do in bed and when to not stop. Also ladies please
tell your man to do like the yellow pages commercial, "Let your fingers
do the walking". Women like and need the finger play. Also ladies if
your man is just down there asap...tell him to slow down. This can also
throw women off when they are feeling rushed.
When you are close
to your partner and feel that sex is in the air, enjoy even just the
kiss at first. I mean really enjoy just the kiss. Allow your body to
warm up and get your juices flowing. Or really feel his touches, and
listen to your partners voice when he says your name. If he never says
your name, tell him too. He will oblige immediately. Tell him you want
to hear him admire your body. A women on the norm has a hard time
verbalizing what she likes. This is just because we were raised to be
nice girls. Well, TALK! You will be surprised at how much more relaxed
you become and excited once you can talk to your partner about touching
where and how. Tell your partner to join you in that little game. A
women's body will react very nicely if you just allow the feelings of a
kiss to penetrate you.
Another turn on for you ladies is to
touch yourself while your partner watches. Yes, you will love it once
you allow him into your world. He will not say no to that request. To
see or hear how excited he gets watching you enjoying your body is
another very big turn on for you. This is also a very good way to keep
your mind away from the, "will I or won`t I" question. Think of
anything but the ultimate O!
G-spot orgasms are pretty easy to
reach. We can get there as easy as men have the ability to get hard. To
get there just tell your man to do the, "walking". Or take his hand and
guide him down to where your body is wanting his touch. G-Spot orgasms
feel nice and they are basically our juice fountain, that is when we
get very wet. This is when your body prepares for penetration.
It
is the clitoral Orgasm that most women are after. Those ones will shake
your ground. But again, these are mind connected. I will say I am
speaking for the norm of women. Every women is different to a degree,
but we are basically after the same thing. We all want to feel that
intense vibration and the total body rush that runs through our body.
It is an adrenaline rush like no other. To know we have that kind of
control in our minds and bodies also boosts our self-esteem! That my
Ladies is a very good thing!
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